Best Phones for Kids: The Ultimate Guide

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Best Phones for Kids: The Ultimate Guide

“Chris, what’s the best phone for kids?”

(Updated May 23, 2024)

We receive this question all the time!

And now that there are multiple kid phone options, parents are hungry for guidance.

When Lauren was going through the tween years (now just graduated high school!), the options were a flip phone, a dorky-big tech watch, an iPhone, or an Android! Basically, all or nothing.

In the United States*, the most popular “first phones” for kids are:

  • Gabb Wireless
  • Pinwheel
  • Troomi
  • The Bark Phone

*Cell coverage is tricky in each country. This post focuses on the USA. But, one of these devices does work in Canada! Keep reading! (Oh, and in other countries, we are going to start compiling a list – right now, start with “best kid phones UK” or “AUS” in your search) In some countries, Nokia has basic phones. Just beware – basic phones still often have a browser and since they’re basic, don’t allow any monitoring or filtering. 

Bottom line – Gabb, Pinwheel, Troomi, and Bark are all great, mission-minded organizations that want to protect kids online. We love this.

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Any of the four is safer option than an iPhone or Android during the critical “training” years.

But there are differences.

Our testing dug into each phone, testing their backdoors, and listing the pros and cons. We love providing deep research and poking around like a tech-savvy tween. Also allowing my children to use them!

Full disclosure – clicking on the links in the post earns us a little money as affiliates and often gives you a special deal! It’s a win-win.

Also note that there are now a significant number of kid-friendly smartwatches, which deserve a separate blog post. We mention Gabb and Troomi watches below but they should be considered alongside other options. See this fabulous post from Parents.com: The Best Smartwatches for Kids, Tested by Real Kids and Their Watchful Parents, which we’ve reviewed and its recommendations are solid.

Tech in Steps #delayistheway

Give kids the right tech at the right time.

This simple sentence shapes much of what we teach at Protect Young Eyes. It’s the foundation for our hashtag campaign: #delayistheway – slow tech, not no tech.

Back in 2015, we were a lonely voice telling parents “No smartphones or social media until at least age 15!” But that doesn’t mean we remove ALL tech from their lives. We have followers from all over the tech spectrum, ranging from “no” to “go” to “slow.” We prefer the “slow tech” approach.

This is particularly true when it comes to PORTABLE digital devices. We’re firm believers that the elementary and junior high years simply don’t need smartphones.

Their hearts and minds aren’t ready for the pressures, targeted marketing, and porn lurking in mini-supercomputers (aka iPhones).

We’ve gone as far as saying:

“No middle school child will become a better version of themselves – emotionally, spiritually, relationally – because of the presence of social media in their life.”

This is why I’m so pleased that parents now have multiple, great kid phone options. Options that give parents peace of mind and allow children to be prepared, balanced, and protected.

What does Tech in Steps Look Like?

Just the hardware side of “tech in steps” could look like this, with a kid’s phone right in the middle:

  • Start with a Family tablet, used by kids (that’s the important ownership piece).
  • Maybe an Echo Kids in their room accompanied by a Gabb Watch.
  • Gabb, Pinwheel, Troomi, or Bark Phone.
  • iPhone with Family Sharing and Screen Time. Android with Family Link.
  • Turn age 18 – we’ve trained you! You’ve got this!

In other words, a kid-friendly phone is a critical step in training a child how to handle sophisticated technology.

What do Gabb, Pinwheel, Troomi, and Bark Have in Common?

All four of these kid-friendly phones:

  • Have a strong mission.
  • Are designed for kids. Yeah!
  • Look like a smartphone.
  • Use GPS tracking.

Two phones eliminate all internet browsing (Gabb, Pinwheel). Three eliminate social media (Gabb, Pinwheel, Troomi). Only the Bark phone allows full access to whatever internet browsing and social media you allow but with its premium AI software woven throughout. It’s now a wonderful “step” between the minimalism of Gabb and the supercomputer-like iPhone. Finally, parents have options!

What are the Differences between Gabb, Pinwheel, Troomi, and Bark?

1. Kid Phone Prices for Devices & Service

As of July 19, 2024

Gabb Devices:

  • Gabb Watch 3: $149.99 + Cellular Plan (see below)
  • Gabb Phone 4: $149.99 + Cellular Plan (see below)
  • Gabb Phone 4 Pro: $199 + Cellular Plan (see below)

For Gabb Phones, you must select a specific bundle, and then choose a cellular plan. Each bundle comes with different benefits and costs.

The cellular plans change prices based on the Bundle you choose, here’s the breakdown:

Starter Bundle:

  • $24.99 with a 2-Year Contract
  • $26.99 with a 1-Year Contract
  • $29.99 without a Contract

Standard Bundle:

  • $29.99 with a 2-Year Contract
  • $31.99 with a 1-Year Contract
  • $34.99 without a Contract

Advanced Bundle:

  • $34.99 with a 2-Year Contract
  • $36.99 with a 1-Year Contract
  • $39.99 without a Contract

There aren’t any bundles for the Gabb Watch 3, all you need to do is select a cellular plan:

Accessories include fun bands, speakers, screen protectors, earbuds, and more.


Pinwheel Devices: they have different levels, and you can sometimes buy new or pre-owned:

  • “Pixel” – $599 (new), $529 (pre-owned) Android 6.1″ Full HD OLED display, fully compatible with all carriers and 5G.
  • “Plus” – $329 (new), $259 (pre-owned), Android, 6.5″ super AMOLED display, fully compatible with all carriers and 5G.
  • “Slim 6″ – $199 (only new), Android BLU G91s, 6.5” display, fully compatible with all carriers and 5G.
  • “Rugged” – $249 (new), $139 (pre-owned), Android, 5.5″ display, not compatible with AT&T, Verizon, or 5G.
  • “Genesis” – $99 (new), $59 (pre-owned), Android, 6.5″ display, not compatible with AT&T, Verizon, or 5G.

Pinwheel Plans: this is different from the others, in that you’re just paying for the Pinwheel parent portal. You will have to add a carrier, e.g., AT&T data plan on top of the amount below:

  • Caregiver Portal Access ($14.99/mo. or $13.75 paid annually) total of $164.99/year. Plus, whatever plan you want to add from your wireless carrier.
  • Choose cellular service ($15/mo or choose your own)

Troomi Devices:

Troomi offers 2 phones, the A14 5G ($199), and the A13 LITE ($149), as well as the XGO3 Kids Smart Watch ($129) – available in 4 different colors.

Troomi Plans:

Their Smart Watch only uses the DARE plan, however, that plan is not offered for their smartphones. No contracts are required for any of the plans listed below:


Bark Device:

The Bark Phone is their flagship device ($199), it’s a Samsung Galaxy A13 (32GB), and the device comes with the service!

Bark Plans – note that all come with Bark’s premium AI software:

Starter Plan:

  • $39/month for unlimited talk, text, and no internet, app store, or games

Advanced Plans:

  • $39/month for talk/text only. It’s their “Gabb-like” option. Dead simple!
  • $49/month for unlimited talk, text, and Wi-Fi only
  • $59/month for unlimited talk, text, and 4GB of data per month
  • $69/month for unlimited talk, text, and 8GB of data per month
  • $89/month unlimited talk, text, and 35GB of data per month

With Bark, for the $49 plan and above, you’re paying for things that the other phones can’t do like monitor web browsing and social media with their premium software – a $15/month value. Read more about below!

**Hey, check this out!

We created a pricing spreadsheet that automatically calculates the lifetime cost of the devices above! Just download the spreadsheet to your computer (I have it uploaded as “read-only” so everyone can access it) and then insert the number of years you plan to use the device. If you plan to use Pinwheel, you’ll also insert the carrier plan cost. I love a good spreadsheet!

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2. Gabb and Troomi have Smartwatches!

The Gabb Watch is a strong elementary and early junior high device that looks and functions great. The steps counter is fun, and Gabb offers playful accessories. And Troomi also has a smartwatch made for kids!

For families following a “stepped” approach to technology, this means Gabb and Troomi have an advantage with a watch that provides an awesome on-ramp to portable tech. My middle school sons have used a first-generation Gabb Watch with success.

3. Carrier Differences

Gabb, Troomi, and Bark use the Verizon, AT&T, and T-Mobile networks, respectively, for coverage. You don’t pay anything to these carriers – each kid phone company has “tapped” into the network so you pay Gabb, Troomi, and Bark (for example, here’s Bark’s coverage map, which is the same as T-Mobile’s).

Pinwheel is different. Remember – you’re essentially paying for Pinwheel’s operating system/parent portal to use on a compatible Android phone, which could use any carrier (they recommend Mint Mobile).

Why might this matter? Maybe you want all your mobile phones on the same “plan” for simplicity – mom, dad, tween. In either scenario, you would only be able to use Pinwheel. Or, maybe you only have great coverage with Verizon, but you want more features than Gabb. Then, you might select Pinwheel so that you can use a compatible Android phone on Verizon’s network.

4. Managing Contacts on Kid Phones

During the training phase, it’s important for parents to know who their kids are communicating with.

Gabb takes a different approach to contact management than the other three. Instead of using an allowed contact list, Gabb uses Gabb Guard, its proprietary text and call filtration service.

Per Gabb:

“Gabb Guard stops over 90% of potentially harmful content from being texted to your child from unknown numbers, including URL links, image and video attachments, profanities, dirty slang, and solicitation messages.”

Even with this feature, a popular parent forum and a few PYE followers have struggled with spam texts and calls making their way through. We’ve been assured by Gabb leadership that this issue has been fixed and recently we have noticed far fewer comments about this issue.

Pinwheel, Troomi, and Bark use an “allowed contacts” approach. This just means kids can only text and call individuals on the contacts list. Interestingly, the Gabb Watch also uses an “allowed contacts” list, which we would love to see used on their phone.

Pinwheel and Bark allow three different phases for contact control (we love these):

  • Strict – parents control all contacts on the phone via the Caregiver Portal.
  • Less strict – kids can add contacts and request parent approval, which parents clear in the Pinwheel Caregiver Portal.
  • Least strict – kids add any content but parents can see them anytime in the Caregiver Portal.

Troomi allows:

  • Strict – parents control all contacts on the phone via their Parent Portal.
  • Less strict – kids can add contacts and request parent approval, which parents clear in the Parent Portal.

Bark also allows certain contacts to be tagged as “Emergency,” which allows them to be communicated with anytime.

Based on conversations with our parents, they prefer what Pinwheel, Troomi, and Bark are doing here. Gabb made this choice to be more “kid first,” but parents seem to want control while training their kids.

5. Monitoring Text Messages

There are key differences here.

Gabb offers its very own messaging and video calling app, Gabb Messenger, that is completely designed for kids with their safety as the number one priority. It’s built to keep kids connected and parents informed.

Pinwheel uses the Android SMS texting app, and their parent portal allows remote visibility into all text messages. Even deleted texts!

Troomi uses Android SMS texting as well, but they have their own free content filtering! They block the obvious, but parents can customize the rest! Notifications can alert parents based on the kinds of content being sent or received.

Bark takes a bit of a hybrid approach between those due to the advantage of its premium AI software:

  • Kids can’t delete texts without permission.
  • Parents rely on Bark’s software to detect inappropriate images + words and only get involved if needed. Here’s what that might look like on the Parent Dashboard:

Bark Screen Shot Concerning Text

It’s strong. And for some parents, this approach might strike the right balance between “trust” and “verify.”

FYI – Pinwheel is also compatible with Bark’s premium AI software, which monitors texting for concerning activity. But you would have to add that to a Pinwheel phone for another $14/month. You can check out Bark’s software here, which also works on iPhones and standard Android smartphones and tablets if you have those in your home:

Bark Parental Controls
(Click/tap the image to learn more about Bark’s software)

A quick note about GROUP TEXTS – we’ve received quite a few messages from parents who were frustrated by how these devices manage text groups. Because contacts are often limited to who has been added as an “allowed contact,” any of the phones above might struggle with group texts. But this is by design. Just ensure that the kids your child is communicating with are included in his/her contacts!

6. What Apps are Available on Kid Phones?

Some key differences in the Apps and Internet sections.

  • Gabb has historically only had its own, proprietary apps. With the Gabb Phone 4, there are several essential apps like radio, camera, and calculator. The Gabb Phone Pro 4 then introduces hundreds of Gabb-Reviewed and parent-managed apps (no social media or internet browsers, but some of the 3 party apps have still led to backdoors to the internet). Here’s How To Enable and Disable 3rd Party Apps on the Gabb Phone Pro 4.
  • Pinwheel has a large, curated app list (300+), that has been vetted by parents and therapists. Some have backdoors to the internet, which Pinwheel notes in their “app store.” Useful apps allowed by Pinwheel include Google Drive, Docs, and even banking. Pinwheel’s website has a detailed and honest description of the apps it allows, noting which apps have potential backdoors or features that could expose children to mature content. It’s impressive.
  • Troomi has (250+) apps that are useful for kids. Their descriptions are helpful for apps that can used okay, but might contain explicit content. For example – there are disclaimers for apps where inappropriate content may be accessible, such as Spotify. Parents then must read and acknowledge the disclaimer before the app can be added to the device. Parents, please read these and don’t just scroll by.
  • Bark allows access to the entire Google Play Store, and therefore has the largest selection! The Parent Dashboard in the Bark App allows parents to allow or disallow apps that a child wants to download.

 

“Backdoors to the Internet”this is important. For Pinwheel, they are very forthright with where backdoors in apps exist. And if they are accessed, according to a direct response from their leadership, “Pinwheel has a global ‘blocked sites’ list that includes many common adult websites.” In other words, even if a child found a backdoor to the internet, many porn sites aren’t accessible – awesome.

For Troomi, there are backdoors, but like all other Troomi features, the internet browser can be completely turned off (in addition to two browser options).

For Bark, their software is woven throughout the phone.

7. What Kid Phones have Access to the Internet?

With Gabb’s basic phone it’s simplethere’s no internet browser. But the Gabb Phone 4 does allow third-party apps (approved by Gabb and enabled by Parents only) with internet backdoors that have caused some kids to stumble into problems based on DMs we’ve received from parents.

Pinwheel doesn’t have a browser, but has some internet backdoors, which we just explained in the Apps section, and are clearly called out in the Parent Portal.

Troomi has two browser options – an unfiltered Chrome browser or their “allow list only” KidSafe™ browser. This means you can only visit websites that are put on the allowed list.

One concern – I want to make sure parents understand that the Troomi KidSafe™ browser isn’t a filtered browser. The name “Kid Safe” implies more than what it does. It’s a browser for whatever websites are added to the Parent Portal. This means any website can be added and accessed on the phone, including explicit sites.

However, with their new content filtering, you can adjust a profanity filter, add or remove specific words to flag, and blur flagged content as well. You can also disable the internet browser altogether if you’d like.

Since the Bark Phone has access to the entire Google Play Store, parents can allow or disallow any browser they want. And any browser that’s allowed will be monitored by Bark’s software on the phone.

**Pro tip (password vaults) – for all kid phones with a parent dashboard, like Pinwheel, Troomi, or even Bark (the software), parents will want to make sure they DO NOT add the username and password for the parent portals to their password managers (sometimes called password vaults). Example – LastPass or One Password. The risk is that a sneaky kid could use that computer, log in with the parent password (which auto-populates), add mature websites to his Troomi KidSafe™ browser, and watch them on his Troomi phone.

Bottom line – only the Bark Phone will alert parents if kids use a browser on the phone to access explicit content. The other three phones rely on kids making good decisions and parental involvement.

8. What about Clean Music?

Both Troomi and Pinwheel allow Spotify, Spotify Kids, Apple Music, and Amazon Music, which have some vulnerabilities. Pinwheel is forthcoming about the mature features present in a few of these streaming music apps. Troomi has their disclaimers for apps that might be risky, be sure to read through those before approving apps (here’s our Streaming Music parental control review).

Bark allows access to all streaming music services and it’s just up to parents to decide which ones they want to allow. Note that Bark’s software does monitor for explicit content on Spotify, which is great.

Gabb solved the music problem by creating their own, proprietary service called Gabb Music. It uses AI and hand-selected tracks for an up-charge of $4.99/month. The upcoming Gabb Music Plus will be a true Spotify Premium experience for $9.99/month.

All four allow kids to use Bluetooth headphones.

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9. Which Kid Phone has the Best Camera?

  • Gabb Phone and Plus: 13MB front (selfie), 50MP rear.
  • Pinwheel Pixel: 13MP front, 64MP rear; Plus: 13MP front, 50MP rear; Slim: 13MP front, 48MP rear; Rugged: 8MP front, 13MP rear; Genesis: 8MP front, 13MP rear.
  • Troomi Phone: 8MP front, 50MP rear; Troomi Phone Pro: 13MPfront, 50MP rear
  • Bark: 13MP front, 50MP rear

13MP on the front facing lens and 50MP on the rear facing lens seem to be the latest standard for cameras on kid friendly phones.

Pinwheel has both the strongest (Pixel) and the weakest (Rugged and Genesis) cameras. Gabb and Bark have equal camera quality. Troomi’s base phone has a lesser quality on the front lens, but their Phone Pro is in par with Gabb and Bark.

10. Screen Time Limits (Who has the Best Parent Portal?)

The original Gabb Phone has no screen time limits. With only 15 custom apps, they didn’t think limits were needed. This means there isn’t a portal for managing many of the phone’s features. We suspect this might change as features are added to the Gabb Phone Plus.

Pinwheel’s parent portal is user-friendly and customizable. Limits can be set for school time, homework, and bedtime, including individual app access. There’s even a fun “chore” mode where kids can earn phone time. It’s extensive.

Troomi’s portal and screen time user experience is similar to Pinwheel. Their added content filtering settings are worth noting here as they add an additional layer of protection and customization.

Bark’s app-based parent portal is probably the easiest to use since it leverages what Bark has learned from having a parent portal for their software since 2015.

11. Which Device has the Best Customer Service?

All four companies depend on self-help online, email, and live online chat.

  • Pinwheel also has phone support from 7 a.m. to 9 p.m. CST, call or Text: (888) 903-7977.
  • Troomi also has phone support Monday – Friday (8:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m. CT) at (866) 545-4222.
  • As of the writing of this post, Gabb depends on live chat support. Gabb: Monday-Thursday 7 a.m. – 6:30 p.m. MST; Friday/Saturday 7 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. MST.
  • Bark has chat that directs you to leave an email address for someone to reach out, which they did in about 30 minutes. I was then offered email support or I could schedule a phone call. Email support is 8am-2am EST. Phone calls are scheduled through a Calend.ly link and are robust, including full device or software set-up, screen time questions, etc.

12. Random Features Worth Noting

In 2024, Pinwheel added its own PinwheelGPT (AI) chatbot. Both parents and kids can create an account and ask up to 20 questions monthly for free. More usage requires a subscription for $19.99/month or $79.99/year. They promise a kid-friendly experience.

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Important note for our Canadian friends – The Team at The White Hatter successfully used a Pinwheel phone in Vancouver!

“…we used a SIM card ($10 + tax) from a Canadian company called Public Mobile that piggybacks on the Telus cellular network ($15 a month + tax).”

Bottom Line: What Kid-Friendly Phone is Right for You?

All claim that they’re the safest phones for kids. And when the Bark Phone is in talk/text mode and the Gabb Phone 4 Pro is in the Starter Plan, both are very safe. 

Back to our “tech in steps” mention above. Here’s what we’re aiming for:

Watch -> phone without browser and third-party apps -> add browser and third-party apps. 

For step 2 in that sequence, Bark in talk/text and Gabb Phone 4 Pro in the Starter Plan fit.

This means Bark has the advantage because of its basic talk/text option, which gives it a very Gabb-like feel. And, for “step three” – adding a browser or maybe other third-party apps, including social media, Bark’s advanced software monitors closely.

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Its biggest disadvantage with Bark, is the price, \which can get expensive (visit the PYE pricing spreadsheet and compare!).

Like I said at the beginning – all four companies are in this for families, doing great things:

We love spreadsheets, so here’s the grid! Which device are you using? Comment with your experience below.

*There might be affiliate links throughout this post because we’ve tested the heck out of these resources 🙂 We hope the information is helpful. If you decide to purchase something, we may earn a small commission and you often get a better price. Woot! 

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80 thoughts on “Best Phones for Kids: The Ultimate Guide”

  1. We had Troomi for a while. One of my kids forgot his passcode and there is no way to reset it without buying and entirely new phone. We switched to a different company after that.

    1. My daughter also forgot her password on a Troomi Phone recently (Mar 2024)and they were able to reset it for us so we could access the phone again. It was great not to loose all her info. Maybe that is something they couldn’t do in 2022 but they can now?

  2. My daughter has a pinwheel phone. The parent portal is extremely user friendly and can be accessed from my phone or laptop. It allows me to supervise without holding her phone and looking obvious. Also, the education and warnings on apps are very helpful. We have not had any technological issues adding or deleting contacts and it happens almost immediately. I’m
    so happy with this product and highly recommend it!

  3. I was looking forward to the Bark phone, but I don’t like that they do not have the option for the parent to review the full text history (they only have alerts to what they dem concerning content). We’ve used a Pinwheel phone for over a year now, and while it has some bugs still, it has met our needs well and has eliminated the conflicts most parents and teens have over cell phone use. I think being able to review the full text conversation really helps put things in context, vs snapshots from alerts. If Bark had that option, I’d be more interested in their phone.

    1. Depeding on the age of your child especially a teen, full text history is not worth it. Your child is growing up and with age comes responsibilties and of course privileges. Your child may not be comfortable with you reading their text messages becuase the nature of the conversations is very different from when they where younger. To be honest the perfect fit your child is BARK. Maybe you should talk to your child.. making it clear that you will not be monitoring their conversations, etc. call text history but that you trust them, however if you do have a suspicion that your child is talking to someone that is sending them things you deem inapporpriate then of course by all means and ask to their conversations. You want your child to trust you and feel comforatble talking to you about things that come with growing older such as crushes, school problems etc.

  4. Hi, I’m looking at the pinwheel phone but I don’t know what a mint SIM is. I’m looking to upgrade my daughter’s gabb phone. Thanks !

    1. Hello! The Pinwheel process will make it clear how to move forward with the plan that works best for you. I would give Pinwheel a try! Please click/tap one of the links in our blog post for Pinwheel, which will let them know PYE sent you – thank you!

  5. I don’t quite understand how Gabb music works? It says it’s “radio style”. Is this like pandora where you can’t choose a specific song? Does it include Podcasts? I am looking for a safe way for my child to listen to music, podcasts, and audiobooks without the internet.

  6. Thanks for the excellent overview. We are considering one of these options for our 16 year old son with Down syndrome. One of the key factors for us is the GPS and the ability to track or “find” our son at any given moment. Did you look into that at all?

    1. Hello! My 12-year-old son has Downs 🙂 Each of them have strong GPS and can “find” the child on a map in the respective app for the phone, e.g., the Gabb parent app, the Bark parent app, etc. Hope that helps!

  7. Thank you for helping equip us to keep our kids safe! This post was so helpful in comparing phone options. Will there be a detailed Bark Phone review coming soon? Thanks!

        1. I love it and just haven’t had time to add it. I would recommend it before Pinwheel and Troomi. You’ll start to see us focusing more on Gabb and Bark going forward.
          Chris

  8. Can you say that the Bark Software on an apple device is comparable to the bark phone it’s self?! We are Apple product users as parents and want to have apple products for the kids to make things simple for sharing calendars and such.

    1. Hello! No, Bark software + iPhones is not even close to the amount of monitoring that occurs on a Bark (Android) phone. Those darn iPhones just resist being “seen,” which is good for adult privacy but hard for child protection.

      Chris

  9. Does Bark protect against adult sites and pornography especially? My concern with them is what they consider appropriate vs what I would consider appropriate. I haven’t found a good answer to this. I would say adult content is my biggest concern with phone use. Looking at starting our 15 year olds on their first phones. I appreciate your gradual approach — but financially, we haven’t been able to add phones or watches or plans, etc. Now they are at a point where they need them. Thank you!

    1. Hello! Bark would simply apply the existing, generally accepted SafeSearch filters on search engines and I will vouch for their AI in terms of what it deems pornographic when it’s scanning photos, etc. Each family is going to have their own specific opinions, but Bark is as good as any.

  10. We currently have a Gabb phone but my son jumped in the pool with it in his pocket and we need to replace it….so I’m trying to decide if I want to stick with Gabb or try something different. I was leaning toward the Pinwheel because of some of the app options, the camera, and the ability to monitor texting. (and the Gabb music stinks in our opinion ) But I’m curious to know why you would pick Bark over Pinwheel. I guess the back door internet access with Bark is my concern. Would love to hear your thoughts. Thank you so much.

    1. Hi, Alicia! If I could pick one right after Bark, it would be Pinwheel. They are so very close. For your son, it might mostly depend on whether or not you want a browser (Bark) or not (Pinwheel). But you will get a quality device, that was made with kids in mind, with either one. Hope that helps!

      Chris

  11. We were hoping to wait till high school to get our 13yo son a phone, but we think we may need to start in 8th grade (he’s the last hold out in his class). We are leaning towards Pinwheel as we don’t think he needs constant internet access in his pocket (he has access to ipad and family computer at home, where we have Gryphon router/parental controls for safety). Would the Pinwheel phone still work well in first year or so of high school as school related uses increase – I think a lot of high school use phones to communicate with students and post homework, etc? After that we will likely shift to Bark phone to work towards increasing independence. Thanks for your guidance -greatly appreciated.

  12. Thank you so much for taking the time to review and share the detailed comparison! This really helped us make our decisions.

    We’ve had a Pinwheel for our middle kiddo for a while, and it’s been a little frustrating. Some text messages just never came through for him, even from his parents (we’re definitely approved contacts)! Some email and group-me notifications came pretty late, too, which were important for him to get. Not sure if it just didn’t play well with our discount carrier (Ting) or our apple imessages or what.

    We’ve been using Bark for a while on my older kiddo’s iphone. I’m SUPER happy that Bark has their own phone now! We’re now setting up our new Bark phone for the kiddo who was previously on Pinwheel. He’s happy to have a browser that he knows will be monitored, and a little more freedom, and we’re thrilled to have the Bark AI integrated. We’re going to have to switch from ical to google calendar to keep the family organized as he enters high school in a week, but that’s a small price to pay for the peace of mind.

    We have Covenant Eyes on our other devices, but I’m assuming we don’t really need to add it to the Bark phone? It looks like Bark should be already detecting and blocking the same kinds of things; and as busy parents it would be nice not to deal with potential alerts twice.

    1. Hello! Great job finding something that works well for your situation with a bit of trial and error. You’re correct that you don’t want to put CE on the Bark phone.
      Warmly,
      Chris

  13. Hi there! Is there a way to make the Phone Information spreadsheet printable or downloadable?? So I can share it with friends of mine?

    1. Hello! If you’re referring to the image at the bottom, I don’t mind if you download the image, or just email a link to the full post to your friends! I’d love for them to see all of it.

  14. Hello- I am having trouble getting clarification on whether you pay for the Bark Phone? Their website says $200 to buy the phone or free with 2 year contract. But I have read that the cost of the phone is included in the monthly service fee and that you are “renting” the phone. Your spreadsheet also shows that there is no cost.

  15. I wanted to go with the Bark System for my 13 year old daughter but they do not offer service in Anchorage area of Alaska. The coverage map says yes, but the web site says no. Frustrating. Pinwheel is my second choice.

  16. I have a son that is now 18 years and still living at home. He wants a “kid safe” phone to help him resist pornography and also stay effecient with his time. Are there phone options like this for adults?

      1. Thank you. We did end up going with the Bark phone. Because he was already 18, he needed to fill out a consent form and we had to get it notarized. It made signing up about a 2-3 week process but it works now.

        Bark has been a good choice for us with one cautionary WARNING: Bark has a VPN glitch. The phone won’t filter and won’t enforce rules/limits without the VPN working. The glitch is that the VPN periodically goes down for varying time amounts (few minutes to a full day sometimes). If the VPN goes down, then the Bark phone is supposed to be put in lockdown mode. But this is not the case for some users, including me. For those unlucky ones, the filtering capabilities and limits become useless; my son has complete freedom to do whatever. What he accesses does get tracked and later reported to me, but then I am on damage control duty. When the VPN goes down my son is the first to know because the Bark icon will disappear from the top of his phone and he gets a notification. Yet I, as the parent, do not get such notifications. I can only see if he VPN is working through taking the time to open my Bark app and check. The VPN is turned back on via manual restart…but the glitch will happen again at some point.

        Bark knows about the issue and is working to fix it, but they never admitted to me exactly how long this issue has been going on. I found out about it just last week, but my son says that it has been going on for a long time (he just never told me…grr).

  17. Helpful!
    This article should be updated, though. Gabb Messenger is up and running and some other features are in the phone that are not mentioned.
    Thank you!

  18. I completely agree with your assessment on the importance of phone monitoring and parental controls. I recently installed an app on my kid’s phone that tracks their online activity and it’s been a lifesaver. We’ve also talked about the importance of device-free zones in the home, like the dining table, to encourage healthy screen use habits. Great post, very informative!

  19. I have been so overwhelmed getting a phone for my 3rd child (I have 4) since my vintage flip phone no longer can be activated (broken or too old). Every current flip phone I’ve found has a browser or YouTube or something…it’s so frustrating. I was VERY hesitant to do anything that remotely looks like a smart phone or even has app capabilities, but here we are. I just wanted to let you know appreciative I am of your mission and detailed information with each phone. I have read this post multiple times, copied the spreadsheet to calculate costs, etc. I’m just thankful for your research and that this tiny circle of parents feels a little bit bigger today. Thank you for all of your hard work in protecting our kids! We went with a Bark for now. Really considered the Pinwheel, but reviews weren’t as good.

  20. We purchased two Gabb phones (original, not the newest version) for our kiddos (13 and 11) for Christmas. At first they seemed great, but with use over time, we’ve had lots of issues with texts and calls not going through (especially if the phones have been on or off WiFi at home and toggled back and forth between WiFi and cellular), and we never know whether messages and calls are being received (on their end or ours) until we’re all back in the same space together. This has been tough, as we rely on them primarily for ride communications and when they’re with friends. Most recently, our son’s service would only work on WiFi but not cellular, and he was in a spot where the WiFi was iffy and couldn’t reach us. (Our cell service has never been an issue before.) I’ve tried several times to contact Gabb for help, but their chat-only option (no phone line that ends up in a call with a real person to date) has left us a bit disappointed. Our issues haven’t been resolved, so we’re currently looking to find a different option (thank you, Chris, for this super-helpful post!) and in a year contract on both phones. It sounds like Bark or Pinwheel might be in store for us in the near future!

  21. Great article! The landscape of kid-friendly phones has truly evolved. It’s fantastic to see a comprehensive guide that covers all the options available today. Back when my eldest was a tween, the choices were so limited—pretty much just basic flip phones or fully-featured smartphones.

  22. I am thinking of getting the bark phone for my child . She had social media and I tried to limit it through the iPhone which doesn’t seem to work as well . With the bark phone , can I block certain social media apps and what’s the “back door “ I am hearing about bark ? Also can we download something as a FaceTime video option . Does it have tracking ? Are all social media and messages monitored ? i don’t want to feel like I am taking everything away but I do need her to know that if she does something inappropriate, I will get notified

    1. (From Sam, at Bark – I sent your questions):

      – With the Bark Phone, you can block social media entirely, block/allow specific apps, and you can also require app requests from the child, so they wouldn’t be able to download any app without parent permission.

      – I’m not 100% certain what parents opt for when it comes to FaceTime type apps but might suggest Google Meet. Additionally, now iPhone users can send a FT link so that you can still video call between iPhone and Android.

      – The phone has full GPS location tracking as well as check-in requests and alerts.

      – Everything that the Bark Phone monitors can be found here:
      https://www.bark.us/what-bark-monitors/bark-phone/

  23. Hi Chris. We’ve been with Gabb for a long time (two watches, then a watch and a phone). Our older child (15.5) has alot of issues with his Gabb Phone (the original, not the newest). He misses alot of group texts (even now where he controls his own contacts, group messaging continues to be an issue). This is probably his biggest complaint….group texting and being sadly one of the few kids without an Apple device on a group text.

    Do Bark phone users report these same issues with group texting? (Since it is also not an Apple device)

    Also, can you deactivate having a browser on Bark? I would like him to have select apps we approve, block social media for sure, and I’m not interested in a full browser being part of his experience yet. Trying to fully understand the browser experience on Bark.

    Thank you for this amazing article!

    1. Hello! So glad it’s helpful. If the Gabb device is giving you trouble, then please go with Bark. You should have no trouble with group texting and yes, you can deactivate the browser. And then fully monitor the browser when you allow it. Take care!

  24. My husband and I both have IPhones and I can’t seem to find if any of these have parent portals that are compatible with Apple. Does anyone know the answer to this?

  25. I am getting ready to move from the watch phase to the first phone phase and have considered the gabb phone. However, I’ve heard from a lot of people that an iPhone has all the safety features that you can lock down your kid’s phone and it works basically like a gabb phone. Is this true? What are the disadvantages of going this route (other than cost)?

    1. Hello, Kaleigh! You can lock down an iPhone quite a bit with some effort. We have a video on our Instagram page showing many of the steps. Here’s another consideration. An iPhone is a device made for adults. And even with things locked down tight, there are always backdoors. In terms of a mindset, I don’t want a child thinking they’re ready for an adult device for as long as possible. It simply wasn’t designed with them in mind and there are so many bugs affecting Apple’s Screen Time that many parents are being surprised at things shutting off without warning. I hope this helps!

  26. My son, 14, has a Gabb phone and we are needing to upgrade to either a new phone or was thinking about Bark. Any thoughts? He is frustrated with Gabb and the limited options, especially music and apps but their newer phone might solve that? He will be heading into 9th grade and wondering if Bark is a good next step? Thanks, have always valued your advice and expertise.

    1. Hello! If you’ve had Gabb, then moving up to a Bark Phone can be a very good step. It’s a full Android that gives you full control. I suspect many of the frustrations you’ve expressed would go away. Just tap through any of the Bark Phone links on the post so they know we sent you their way! Hope that helps.

  27. I am truly so grateful for this article! I had no idea that there were so many options for safe phones right now. There weren’t really any that I was aware of 8-ish years ago for my oldest children. For Christmas, I bought both of my next set of teens a Gabb phone. I am frustrated with them at this time. My son’s seems to have possibly found the “back door” to the internet. Unfortunately, I have been unable to prove it yet. The customer service is truly awful. In fact, I found this article because I was looking for reviews on Gabb due to my current issues with them. After reviewing everything here and looking over the spreadsheet, I feel compelled to give Bark a chance. But the price stresses me out! You have definitely helped me feel more informed though. Thank you for your time and your concern for our young people!

    1. Hi, Nichole – I’m glad the information was helpful. The Bark Phone is also a great device and if that’s where you are, then I would give them a chance, if price isn’t too much of a barrier. Take care!

    2. You might look into MMGuardian as another option. You can read more about it in this article on the Defend Young Minds’ website https://www.defendyoungminds.com/post/ultimate-comparison-best-smartphones-for-kids-2023 . MMGuardian seems to be a happy medium between Pinwheel and Bark, and much less expensive then Bark.
      My 13-year-old has had Pinwheel for the past 2 years, and it has been a good, but not great experience for us. We are definitely pleased with some of the changes they have made in the past couple of years. She can now download any app in the Google Playstore which we approve, except for those which are on Pinwheel’s blacklist, which we like. Our biggest frustrations with Pinwheel have been that we have not been able to get Life 360 to work properly on it, and that her phone very often, but not always, shows a time which is one hour off from the actual time, and she has no way of knowing if the time is correct or not. [If we lived very close to a time-zone line, I could understand this, but we live multiple hours away from the next time zone.) We were going to go with Bark for her next phone, but after learning about MMGuardian, we have decided to go that route, since in the long run it will be much less expensive, and also, MMGuardian allows monitoring of text message history.

  28. We all know no kid would enjoy having these. Do your kid a favor and get them a iPhone. Y’all just helicopter parents tbh.

    1. Helicopter Parent

      What are the ages of your kids and how did you solve any of these problems on your own without using a moderated phone system? Please share your experiences with 2am phone usage on school nights or 12 year old browsing porn sites? All of us would love to know.

  29. We activated a Gabb phone a month ago & it’s quite simply been a nightmare. We couldn’t port in a phone number, then the SIM card had to be replaced. We’ve never been able to pair the phone in order to use the location tracking feature, and Gabb keeps saying “it’s a known issue we’re working on.” My teen is currently traveling on a school trip & says the phone is randomly turning off & they are unable to send any outgoing texts. I confirmed the texting issue by accessing their logs — they can receive texts, but not send any … and it seems they can make phone calls, but not receive them! I have used live chat, exchanged emails & spoke to Gabb staff on the phone, probably for over a total of 30 hours in one month — and it’s still not working the way it was supposed to. I have massive buyer’s remorse!

  30. The Pinwheel phone does not allow “adult apps”. But what is the definition of an adult app? One whose rating is 18+? I only ask because the one app my 14yo really hopes to have on his next phone (likely the Pinwheel) is the ESPN Fantasy app for monitoring his Fantasy Football teams. 🙂 I cannot figure out if that is one we will be able to download from the Google Play store. Thank you!

      1. Thank you for the reply, however I have looked through this list (and ESPN Fantasy is not listed). The Pinwheel website says “When your child is ready for more apps, you can access the Google Play Store.” I’m just wondering how we know what we can download from Google Play and what is going to be considered an ‘adult app’ and potentially blocked. Perhaps I need to reach out to Pinwheel directly for this answer.

  31. Thank you for the reply, however I have looked through this list (and ESPN Fantasy is not listed). The Pinwheel website says “When your child is ready for more apps, you can access the Google Play Store.” I’m just wondering how we know what we can download from Google Play and what is going to be considered an ‘adult app’ and potentially blocked. Perhaps I need to reach out to Pinwheel directly for this answer.

  32. V useful article. Thanks a bunch.
    With our teenager going thru certain issues. We are not ready to give our daughter free access to the internet. (Even with wifi)

    Which phone would not allow her to receive pics / video messages or links that open up to video or content we don’t allow.

    If she needs to look up something, which phone has the feature to temporarily allow web access? But monitored. Or certain websites only.

    Will she be able to browse “incognito” ? And delete browsing history ?

    Can the music apps be removed or monitored in these phones ?

    I have heard of kosher phones. Are they comparable?

    Thank you.

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